Navigating life after divorce is tricky. Avoiding these common mistakes can create a healthier co-parenting journey for you and your children.
Using the Child as a Messenger
Don’t ask your child to deliver messages or updates to the other parent. Always communicate directly.
Speaking Negatively About Your Ex
Bad-mouthing the other parent in front of your child damages their emotional well-being and loyalty bonds.
Ignoring Consistency
When parents have very different house rules, it confuses the child. Discuss and agree on some shared guidelines.
Competing for Love
Trying to outshine the other parent with gifts or leniency creates confusion and unhealthy expectations.
Making Big Decisions Alone
Always involve the other parent in important decisions about your child’s education, health, and future plans.
Closing Advice
Co-parenting is a lifelong commitment. Focus on what’s best for your child, not personal victories.